What We Don't Know CAN Hurt Us
Sometimes, what we don’t know can hurt us, badly. So why is it we often charge forward into the unknown with such bravado, regardless of the limitations of our skills, knowledge, and experience?
A while back, on a Friday evening, as a long week began to wind to a close, I made my way from my desk to the kitchen. What better way to end the week than a nice dinner at home with my family?
With visions of relaxation, a beer, and a wonderful meal, my thoughts quickly shifted to the medium-rare cuts of meat I’d been preparing in the sous-vide. A few hours in, they were cooked, tender, and ready for a quick sear to add a mouth-watering crust to the outside. Removed, resting, and cooling down, I started preparing a cast-iron skillet when I noticed an urgent email.
“Not a problem,” I thought. “I’ll quickly respond while the pan heats up.” Quick must not have been as quick as I thought. By the time I wrapped up and added the oil to the pan, well, the pan was way too hot. The oil hit the pan, spread, began smoking, and, in a flash, burst into flames.
All fires are not created equal. While water works well for extinguishing a fire with general combustibles like wood or paper, water has the potential to dramatically amplify a grease fire, causing the grease and flames to splash out of the pan and onto other surfaces. For a grease fire, the best thing to do is cover it with a lid, pan, baking soda, or salt, or use a fire extinguisher.
But if you don’t know this, a well-intentioned move in a moment of panic can make things significantly worse.
Fortunately, moments of panic in our businesses play out more slowly than a flash fire in our kitchens. Instead of seconds, we typically have hours, days, or longer to determine our move.
- Acknowledge your limitations - We all have limitations. Limitations in our skills. Limitations in our experiences. Limitations in our knowledge. That’s ok. None of us need to have all the answers. The better you understand and acknowledge your limitations, the better you’ll be at seeking experts to speak about them.
- Be Curious - Curiosity is the mindset of an explorer. It opens our minds to seeing and absorbing something new without the pretense of accusation of being less than. Curiosity creates learning and, over time, learning combined with application creates expertise. Ask questions, explore, and ponder options and potential outcomes based on what you’re learning.
- Seek Experts - Don’t wait until facing a crisis to surround yourself with other experienced leaders. When facing a challenge, a trusted community of mentors and peers possessing a broad spectrum of skills and experiences is invaluable. Lean into them, seek their advice, and learn from their experiences.
What’s your move when you encounter an unfamiliar challenge?






