Reflect & Reset
It’s the week before Thanksgiving week, and I’m nowhere to be found...at least around the office. The lights are off, the doors are locked, email is set to auto-respond, and voice-mail messages will go unanswered. It’s the same thing every year, and I don’t apologize for it. For 1 week in November, I hit the woods in pursuit of whitetails.
For 1 week, I break away from the cadence and rhythm I’m accustomed to. I shift my priorities away from my pressing professional to-dos and toward hunting. I give my mind the freedom to wander away from my standard routines and challenges, and instead fixate on something completely and wildly different. I focus my energy on wake-up times, hunting locations, and hunting strategy.
But it’s not just about hunting. It’s about breaking routine and doing something radically different. Something that challenges my mind to react differently. It’s about breathing and discovery.
While I spend the majority of my day 20 ft up in a tree, waiting for deer, the majority of what I do is just that, waiting. And it’s in the waiting that the magic happens.
It’s in the waiting I experience things most people miss. I listen to creatures moving and stirring in the dark. I witness the awakening of the woods as the sun rises, and its hushing as the sun sets. I watch and listen to the wind as it moves through the trees, like the wave at a baseball game that moves through the crowd, picking up momentum as it goes. I watch turkeys scratch in the leaves looking for food, bobcats on the prowl along the edges of the fields, coyotes meandering along creek beds, and squirrels stashing their winter fare and chasing each other across the forest floor. I feel the cold air move in and settle on the land in the evening and the warm air creep in and rise with the sun after daybreak.
For 1 week in November, I break away...so that I can
return with an ever-evolving perspective, clear mind,
and grateful disposition.
But, more importantly, after having mistaken 1 too many branches/leaves/brush pile for a deer, I find my mind relaxing and embracing boredom. I’m confronted with myself; the good, the bad, and the ugly. I’m reminded of the people in my life who I’ve been incredibly blessed by. I’m able to reflect in gratitude on both my successes and strengths AND my struggles and weaknesses. I learn to be more patient with myself, appreciate where I am in my journey, and grow in appreciation for the beauty around me.
I’m convinced that everyone needs the opportunity to completely break away like this. For me, it’s become the perfect precursor to my end-of-year annual planning process, as well as a wonderful reflection time ahead of Thanksgiving week. It allows me to take a deep breath before diving back in for another year.
For 1 week in November, I break away...so that I can return with an ever-evolving perspective, clear mind, and grateful disposition.






