Incessantly Curious
Want to know a secret?
As a young budding musician getting ready to enter college to study jazz performance, I remember being equal parts excited and terrified. I didn’t follow a normal path to get there. In fact, as I entered the program, I had been playing for less than 3 years, was self-taught, and couldn’t read music to save my life.
I walked into the audition room the first day surrounded by teachers and students who had been studying and playing music for most of their lives. They could read music like I read a book. They understood music theory. They could solo and transpose. They talked the talk, while all I could do was sit in awe, thrilled to be included and terrified I’d be found out.
The head of the program welcomed us and, as he introduced us to the program and our newly embarked on journey, he shared something interesting. He said, “The more you learn, the more you’ll discover you don’t yet know.”
“The more you learn, the more you’ll
discover you don’t yet know.”
At the time, I’m not sure I even understood what he said. The more I learn and the better I get, the more I’ll realize I don’t know. Really? How does that even make sense? Here I am with some phenomenal musicians and even better professors who all appeared to have mastery over their instruments.
I thought, “I just need to learn what they know and I’ll have it figured out.”
So I began. I worked hard. I learned music theory. I learned how to read, play different styles, and transpose both styles and keys in real-time. I spent countless hours a day practicing. And the better I got and the more skills I acquired, the more I began to understand what my professor had shared. My skills were increasing and my confidence was decreasing as I began to comprehend just how much I didn’t know.
"Being incessantly curious opened me
up to discovery and constant learning."
Most of us spend significant amounts of time looking at others who are beyond our current skills, thinking, “Wow. If I could just get there. If I could speak like that, inspire people like that, write code like that, sell like that, tell a story like that, or even play music like that.” We think if we can just get there, we’ll have mastered our pursuit. But ‘there’ is a false destination. The closer we get, the further out the destination appears.
It was during this time I developed one of my core values; incessant curiosity. Not just curiosity, but incessant curiosity. Relentlessly pursued. Unceasing. This value changed my posture from one of ‘not having yet arrived’ to one of ‘possibility’. It opened me up to discovery and constant learning.
So, that’s the secret. No matter what you know or can do, there is always something more you can do or learn. This applies to everyone. Every individual, team, leader, and business. Master the skills of curiosity and learning and you will have the ability to adapt, grow, and consistently solve challenging problems.
What are you learning this week?






