The Process of Learning

February 7, 2024

What does it take to learn something new? The learning process isn’t complicated, but getting the most from what we learn does take discipline and intentionality. When we’re exposed to new information, we absorb it, assimilate it, mesh it with our existing knowledge, simplify it, and finally, regurgitate it. Sure, we can take shortcuts and skip a step here or there, but this can significantly compromise the realized potential benefit.


As a young kid, I struggled to read. Book after book after book, while I read the words and turned the pages, my mind wandered. I’d slow down, re-read, and take notes, but to no avail...my mind still wandered. For the life of me, I just couldn’t quite remember what I read. I couldn’t remember the characters, themes, or major events. Eventually, exhausted after hours of rereading the same material, I’d call it good enough and throw in the towel to play baseball with my brothers in our backyard. I’d tell myself, “That’s probably good enough. I’ve probably got the gist of it.”


Because I hadn’t processed or applied my knowledge,

it hadn’t stuck and I couldn’t logically articulate it.


But man was I wrong! Inevitably, I’d be asked to demonstrate my comprehension on a test or through a book report. Inevitably, this is exactly where I’d get stuck. I’d read the material, sometimes multiple times. I’d tried to absorb, organize, and comprehend it, but I’d really only captured disjointed pieces, pieces that were individually good, but wholly insufficient on their own. Because of this, I hadn’t processed or applied my knowledge. Because of this, it hadn’t stuck, and couldn’t logically articulate it. So, when asked to answer questions, I simply hadn’t captured enough detail to effectively do so.



The real value of learning comes from the ways we allow it to shape

and evolve our thinking followed by our attempts to apply it.


As I’ve grown, become an avid reader, and learned tricks to better absorb and retain information, I’ve spent a lot of time thinking about the challenges that come with making use of what we absorb and, in particular, the breakdowns that occur when we miss important stages of the learning process. Learning is a discipline and we must be both open to new ideas and intentional about the process if we, and those around us, are to benefit from it. The real value of learning comes not from taking in new material, but rather from the ways we allow it to shape and evolve our thinking followed by our attempts to apply it. It’s the application process that makes it come alive, embedding it into our minds as something we know, have given deep thought to, and have experienced in the real world.


What are the key components:


  • Absorption - We access and absorb new information. (Like reading a book or article or listening to a podcast.)
  • Assimilation (Organization) - We organize new information. This is where we tend to look for patterns based on our current knowledge and experiences. This is where we are likely to be lazy, and may want to skip ahead. We take it in, relate it to what we know, and are ready to move on. But stopping here prevents it from expanding our field of view.
  • Percolation - This is the 1st of the 3 steps that transform what we’ve absorbed. This step broadens our views as we think about it, and relate it, in ways beyond our existing patterns. Like a good cup of coffee, new information needs time inside of our heads to mesh with our existing knowledge and experiences. This is where we toss it around, allow it to challenge our previous truths, and allow new thoughts to form. And like coffee, the more we rush the process, the more we compromise the result.
  • Compression - It’s not enough to wrestle with the information and let it transform your thinking. The next step is to figure out how to communicate what’s in your head in a way other people can absorb. You’ve gone on a journey to reach a moment of clarity. The process of whittling down the vast pool of thoughts that have driven you to a moment of clarity drives an even deeper clarity around what’s important vs supportive vs superfluous. Work towards conveying it in a way others can easily comprehend without having to invest the same time and energy you did.
  • Application - Applying what you’ve learned, and teaching others, moves your new ideas from something learned (Head knowledge) to something known (Life experience). Ultimately, this helps the ideas permanently take root in you (Vs. a passing thought forgotten in time) and readies you to repeat the cycle (Whether to build on these new ideas or generate wholly new ones).
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November 27, 2024
I started hunting in my 20s. I didn’t have anyone to teach me, so I did a lot of my own research and learned as I went. I was young, scrappy, and didn’t have a lot of money, and my gear reflected that. As a runner with a very slow resting heart rate, I very quickly learned how cold it was to sit still for hours in the woods in frigid temperatures. So logically I began layering up. Looking somewhat like the Michelin Man in camo, I’d wobble out to the woods, climb a tree using my climbing stand, and hunker down. One particular cold December morning, I teetered on the edge of hypothermia. It was no laughing matter. I almost didn’t have the strength to climb down the tree. What I 'didn't know' put me in a very dangerous position. Through additional conversations and research, I would later find out the very thing I was doing to protect myself was the very thing escalating me toward a potentially dangerous outcome. Fully layered with the wrong materials, I’d built up a sweat heading to the stand. Because of the lack of breathability and the wrong materials, the sweat stayed against my skin, negating the protection of the many layers I wore. "...the lack of breathability and the wrong materials, the sweat stayed against my skin, negating the protection of the many layers I wore." What started as countless layers of cotton is now just 3; wool base, fleece, and jumpsuit. Thanks to feedback from other more experienced hunters, my experience and comfort are now completely different. Counter-intuitively, especially when it’s really cold, I travel to my spot with minimal gear on, allowing myself to completely cool down before layering up in the stand. I now commonly sit comfortably for the entire day. I watch many small business CEOs wrestle with similar conundrums. They have a general idea of what needs to be done, but lack the experience and expertise to understand the pitfalls. Well-intentioned, they move forward, often causing more harm than good. "Well-intentioned, they move forward, often causing more harm than good. " But there are things every leader can do to dramatically increase their odds of success. Surround yourself with other leaders in similar positions and at a variety of points in their business journeys - The power of a trusted group with an expansive skillset can’t be overstated. It’s a resource you can lean on, candidly share details with, and trust to challenge your assumptions and fill in gaps in your expertise. Whether a formal group or not, EVERY leader needs to surround themselves with other leaders they can learn with. Get specific about what you’re trying to do - If you don’t have a north star, no amount of talented individuals can help propel you forward. Intelligence without a strategy and supporting culture is, well, just intelligence. Get specific about where you’re going and what you need to get there…because then you have something specific to discuss and get feedback on. Get intentional about going there - Define your path. Define the timeline. Define your successful outcomes. Measure them. Report on them. Be transparent with your supporting leadership group/mentors/peers to drive your own accountability. Leadership is hard, as is building a strong and growing business. You don’t have to have all the answers and you don’t have to journey alone. Remember—a successful future transaction starts now. Worst case, you hold onto it and end up with a stronger, more valuable, and more predictable business. If I can help, let me know.
March 4, 2024
If we slow down enough to observe, there are a lot of lessons we can learn from watching our kids. The ways they think, interact, absorb, try, and grow. The ways they explore, get curious, and resiliently rebound for another attempt. The ways they determine what’s important vs. what to let go. One such lesson I recently observed was around a few of the key ingredients required for building great sustainable teams. Over the weekend, following an end-of-year nail-biting season-ending game, my youngest daughter’s team found their way to our house to celebrate the end of their middle-school basketball careers. It was a tough season. They weren’t the biggest, strongest, or most talented. They weren’t dropping 3 from the outside or consistently driving the lanes, though the occasional 3 did find its mark. And, they didn’t have a deep bench. In fact, with only 1 sub, they weren’t even getting a lot of breathers. But week after week, game after game, they showed up ready to play. They showed up smiling. They showed up with heart. They showed up ready to take on whatever ‘goliath’ of a team lay in front of them. And somewhere, along the way, in the messiness of practices and hard-fought competition, they learned to battle together as a team. ...somewhere, along the way, in the messiness of practices and hard-fought competition, they learned to battle together as a team. And so, on Saturday night, after playing 2 games with 0 subs, the team gathered together to celebrate. 1st thing on the agenda, head to the kitchen and make cookies. (’cause who doesn’t love a good cookie!) With the recipe in hand and ingredients spread across the counter, they began. They read the directions, measured, added, and mixed the ingredients. They had ideas for improving the recipe, which led to disagreement, though they eventually coalesced around decisions and moved forward in unison, regardless of whose idea the change had been. They laughed...a lot. AND, eventually, the cookies made their way to the oven to bake. When the timer sounded and the cookies had cooled, this team was beyond proud of the result...and the cookies were devoured! From beyond the kitchen, I was privileged with a front-row seat. From beyond the kitchen, I observed as this group of young women demonstrated the magic that happens within a team when the key ingredients are present. From beyond the kitchen, I observed a team operating in unison, towards a common mission, with trust and belief. From beyond the kitchen, I pondered why something so simple is so often brushed aside and replaced by politics, power struggles, and drama. From beyond the kitchen, I marveled at how easy they made it look. ...I pondered why something so simple is so often brushed aside and replaced by politics, power struggles, and drama. What are the 3 key ingredients needed for the recipe of building a great sustainable team capable of consistently punching above its weight class? Mission - Mission provides the rallying cry. In this case, cookies. It’s the purpose and charge for this group of people and is part of their identity. It provides a common understanding of where the team is heading and what they're signing up for. Belief - Belief comes in 3 forms: belief in self, belief in the team, and belief in the mission. It opens the door for trust and permits us to engage. Without it, we have very little chance of succeeding. But with it, we can accomplish things beyond our individual abilities and aspirations. Trust - A common denominator of all winning teams is trust. Trust allows us to combine our skills and energy. In the aggregation, it elevates our contribution. But trust doesn’t come easy. Trust requires vulnerability with each other. It requires a willingness to take risks. It requires a willingness to try, to admit our shortcomings, and to lean into each other’s strengths to improve the output. Without trust, we waste our energy struggling to move forward while often making little progress. What is simple in concept is often so easily forgotten or lost as we navigate the complexities of our business, teams, and markets. But, simple as it is, the right team, comprised of the right ingredients, increases our likelihood of moving faster and successfully navigating the challenges we face. Does your leadership team encompass these key ingredients?
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